Its always hard to express feelings and put them into words after a loss. On January 11th, we lost a part of our Family- Grandpa Manuel Rivera.
Losing a family member is never easy, there is an eerie emptiness about it, a void that cannot be filled by anything but faith and time. I saw this in many of the hearts of family members this past week. And although it is a time where you see many faces you wish you would spend more time with, many people you love and care for, and you can laugh and talk and tell stories, but it all still seems so empty. The atmosphere is quiet and confused, it forces you to start contemplating what means something to you, what drives you. You understand what it means to have each other, and realize that we live live a life that we take for granted. Our life does not belong to us, but to God, who so graciously gives us year after year to enjoy each other and make the best of our short time.
In a time of grief its always hard to look for a silver lining, but being with Ash and her Family during this time actually showed me lot. It emphasized what Family means and reminded me that regardless of what happens in our day to day life, we have to live for a stronger, more important purpose.
Manuel lived a life of purpose and meaning. It was obvious that tangible goods and money meant very little to him. Manuel thrived on family and the well being of that family. He was a Sheppard for the Lord. All the work and effort he put into life was for a richer life, richer than any money could buy. He was married for 65 years to his beautiful Wife whom he devoted his life to. 65 years is an outstanding accomplishment that not only inspires, but reassures me. I admire the man and his wife for all the effort and love put into their relationship, a relationship that guides the rest of the family, that shows the covenant of marriage is sacred and should be treated and cared for that way. They are a role model for the rest of the family, and I have especially taken notice.
Manuel Rivera, your legacy will live on through your wife, your children, your grandchildren, and the many, many people who’s life you made a difference in. We are eternally grateful, thank you.
We love you Grandpa
